Recently, I saw a social media post with a picture of two beautiful female brides getting married to each other. Later on, in the comments, someone else posted a picture of two females also getting married to each other. In the first picture, the brides both wore bridal gowns and were very beautiful and feminine looking. In the second picture, one of the females was dressed in a tuxedo and looked quite masculine. The other female was a not very attractive woman that was dressed in a wedding gown. The person that posted the second picture made comment about how his picture was more typical. Maybe as recent as just five years ago, I might have agreed with him.
I know all this is terribly politically incorrect to write about, but I suspect that most of us would have nodded our heads along with him in private. His picture truly was what a typical lesbian couple used to look like, but things are changing quickly.
I believe a new trend has emerged and it really does make perfect sense if we look at a few factors in America today. It seems like today more and more beautiful, strong and smart women are choosing to have same-sex relationships. I think even a few years back, these women might have chosen a man, but let’s face the facts. Ask any female out there that is looking for a masculine, motivated, male marriage partner or simply a quality male relationship and they will tell you … It’s slim pickings!
Women complain all the time that the selection of men sucks. They say there are not many “real men” out there. I couldn’t agree more. The trend has been moving towards men becoming more like girls for a long time now. I just think now it’s way out of control. Let’s face it. Not many females want to marry a man that is willing to wear a freaking romper, leggings or lace shorts! Men are walking around with buns in their hair and wearing skinny jeans! Dads are dressing up in tutus and dancing across the floor on major news channels. When they play “tea party” with their daughters, they are wearing the make-up and princess crowns and playing the princess like her … They seem to have forgotten that they are supposed to be the PRINCE CHARMINGS!!!!
I think it’s safe to say that modern feminism created a huge mess. In their “attempts” to create “equality”, they actually created an entire “sub-population” of men that nobody wants to marry! Maybe these guys are fun to “party with” for some, but I still believe most of the female population wants a manly man to finally say “I do” to. I believe many women are so grossed out by the “feminine man” that they are opting for a beautiful, strong female. Why do strong females seem to be in abundance and strong males are looked down upon and becoming obsolete? I think it’s safe to say that “traditional”, masculine, strong, motivated men and boys are “suppressed” at very young ages in their schools, many churches, definitely in the media and that inevitably spills into the homes and their relationships.
Young adults in their 20’s are trying to figure out what “gender” they want to identify with and then what gender they are attracted to. They are confused for a long time. In my informal conversations with women in that age group, I am hearing that these young women actually want to get married and are saying that older men are actually more attractive than young men their own age! I suspect that is yet another emerging trend. What do you think is going to happen to older couples when these younger women start seeking after the men in their age group? These younger women are willing to settle for older, more traditional “manly men” than a more “more feminine man” their own age! They identify as “feminists” in their 20s with no clue as to what that really means, ruin and confuse their “selection of men” and then move on to the older men population.
I think we should consider that creating “feminine men” isn’t good for anyone! Let’s face it, most young girls want to say “I am a feminist” when they are young because it isn’t very cool not to say it. When it comes time to settle down and marry, they tend to revert back to wanting a more “traditional manly man.” I think the “good looking lesbian couple” is becoming more and more popular simply because a strong, beautiful, motivated woman is far more attractive to both men and women than a feminine man!
Think maybe God was right when we created some of us males and some females and made us distinct and different?
We need to start passing this book out like Tic-Tacs on campuses. And get them grounded before they’re gelded.
The Effeminization Of The American Male
by Doug Giles
Doug Giles, best-selling author of Raising Righteous And Rowdy Girls and Editor-In-Chief of the mega-blog, ClashDaily.com, has just penned a book he guarantees will kick hipster males into the rarefied air of masculinity. That is, if the man-child will put down his frappuccino; shut the hell up and listen and obey everything he instructs them to do in his timely and tornadic tome. Buy Now:The Effeminization Of The American Male
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